Multigenerational living: Economic benefits or filial piety?

"In an age where independence is often celebrated, many adult children find themselves living at home with their parents. While this not-so-new way of living is only considered from an economical perspective, there is limited data exploring this from a psychological lens. My research has been to shed light on multigenerational living and how this can potentially heighten intergenerational trauma (discreet passing on of traits and behaviours that can be challenging to navigate). Preliminary data collected from a group of 28-45 year old British Asian men who cohabitate in multigenerational homes, has shown that many factors for living in such a way were determined by guilt or filial piety (cultural obligations) and not financial reasons alone. My research has also highlighted the need to have culturally informed psychological services, which led to a much-needed community social initiative – MultiGen Zen CIC that is due to be launched, which aims to empower families to navigate their unique living dynamics with compassion and understanding, paving the way for healthier relationships and improved mental health outcomes that may not be defined within the National Health Service.

More broadly, this way of living can have both positive and negative impacts on mental well-being. Setting clear boundaries, understanding psychological benefits, and navigating difficult conversations are essential for maintaining healthy relationships in this dynamic. Establishing boundaries is crucial for both adult children and parents. Adult children should learn to communicate their needs and desires openly. For example, discussing curfews or personal space can help create a comfortable environment for everyone. Parents, on the other hand, should respect their children's autonomy while offering support. A family that sets clear rules and expectations can create a more harmonious living situation, reducing potential conflicts and misunderstandings.

Living at home can also provide psychological benefits for both adult children and their parents. For adult children, being in a familiar environment can offer comfort and security, especially during challenging times. Parents can enjoy the companionship of their children, which can help reduce feelings of loneliness and improve their emotional health. Studies show that close family ties can enhance emotional well-being, proving that living together can foster strong connections and support systems.

Navigating difficult conversations is another important aspect of living at home. Topics like finances, relationships, and personal choices can be sensitive and may lead to tension. Open discussions about money can empower adult children to take responsibility for their finances while also easing parental concerns. Similarly, conversations about dating or lifestyle choices should be approached with care and respect to prevent misunderstandings. A supportive dialogue allows families to grow closer and helps adult children feel more accepted in their choices.

The choice of adult children to live at home often goes beyond financial reasons. For many, it serves as a source of comfort and belonging. The emotional closeness to family can provide a sense of safety that encourages personal growth. However, this situation can also heighten intergenerational trauma, especially when cultural expectations clash with individual aspirations. In global majority communities, where family ties are strong, the rising cost of living may lead to an increase in this living arrangement, making it essential to address these dynamics positively."